Tears for Fears Pale Shelter

How can I be sure ?
When your intrusion is my illusion
How can I be sure
When all the time you changed my mind
I asked for more and more
How can I be sure
When you dont give me love
You gave me pale shelter
You dont give me love
You give me cold hands
And I cant operate on this failure
When all I want to be is
Completely in command